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couples & Relationship coaching

Couples and relationship coaching embraces the idea that healthy, nurturing relationships are

an important part of life.  Despite this, there are times when we are involved in relationships

that are dissatisfying and full of conflict. This can lead us to a sense of loneliness and isolation.  

The focus isn't healing the trauma of your past relationships, but moving forward with building deeper connections with your current relationships.  

Just as coaching is not psychotherapy, a relationship coach is not a couples therapist. Coaches work with you to strengthen your relationships!

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what can couples & relationship coaching offer you?

Couples and relationship coaching offers you the opportunity to find greater fulfillment in your personal relationships with others.  Much like life coaching for individuals, relationship coaching provides you a safe space to discuss your current issues to identify and create common goals.  We will work on communication skills and conflict resolution strategies.  Couples will look within themselves and discover the true essence of what they seek in dating relationships or in long-term partnerships.

Relationship Problems 


  • Are you exhausted from fighting and feeling lonely?

  • You feel blamed and criticized - you might even feel like you're walking on eggshells

  • You partner doesn't listen to you

  • You feel unappreciated and lonely

  • Your sex life has lost the passion

  • You are struggling to trust and recover from past betrayals

  • You sense there is something fundamentally wrong with you


  • You argue over pointless things, and end up fighting often​

  • Your partner has withdrawn and/or emotionally shut down


  • Your partner has sudden angry outbursts, or is demanding




















Connected Couples

  • Conflict becomes a catalyst for understanding each other, and creating a deeper emotional connection


  • Your needs are understood clearly and are met willingly


  • Old wounds are healed and trust is restored (vital if you've been betrayed)


  • You are able to make emotional contact during sex


  • You'll know how stop recurring fights before they escalate out of control


  • You feel deeply understood, admired, and appreciated as you are now


  • You're an expert on your partner and they're an expert on you


  • You have a strategy for intentionally making time for your emotional connection


  • You have the tools to solve any problem without additional support after relationship coaching


Before meeting with Ryan, we were feeling unsure about our future. Right away we felt comfortable with Ryan and confident that he would help us set goals to create the future of our dreams. Ryan worked as a guide, helping us see the value and positive in all our options. Each time we met, we felt closer to deciding on a plan that would meet our values and create joy for us. Ryan is a patient listener and offered perspectives that we would not have thought of on our own. Ryan was a great fit for us, and really for anyone who is ready to move forward in their life.

Tasia P. & Jose P. 
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